Quarter or one third of the puzzle of life. No big birthday party, silent simple psychological hold a grand ceremony set for 25 years to do summary and review.
caught the tail 24, read some books, some still did not understand the true meaning, I think there is always a moment of the day it all at ease. This is a process of life, but a matter of time, but still want to understand that as early as possible!
one. a woman understand that as early as possible
II. Institute alone
III. learn to sudden changes in the rapidly growing
IV. down stubborn, refusing to escape and face the reality
five. go out and refuse to house
VI. as long as the change in mentality, in fact, life can be very exciting
VII. continued self-learning ability
VIII. Do not let emotions about the decision
a woman understand that women understand that
early as possible as early as possible, at first glance this book, attracted by the story, the real hero of all records, live, work, entering the community, into the company 1-3 years, love, singles, company, man, society, reality, money, ideas, and do their own interpretation of life, a Beijing girl growing up and growing, feel the book vividly describes, the arrival of genuineness of the Select boyfriend, the concept of money changes your life let me have a more profound understanding of their own stubborn sense of the potential impact of a strong, in fact, I live in this city put on a different day big and small, but we do remain in the heavy shell, do not want to see, do not want to hear, do not want to know, in fact, people outside the world really wonderful.
1. family harmony, interpersonal relationships is simple, so I can not understand people who kept saying that the workplace, the so-called career in politics, has been separated from the outside, do not listen, do not look, do not say, do not want, do not participate in the work of so many years, has been to maintain positive attitude, always quiet low-key, as if that does not matter to me. At first glance may be to protect yourself, and now feel a bit more stubborn, in fact, may have been communication between people should be simple, smooth, as long as concise clear enough. Be grateful to learn to show more concern for others, and learn basic interpersonal etiquette, learn to communicate with leaders and colleagues and communication, a good grasp of the degree.
2. every day to get up early, work, work, work, Internet reading, chatting with friends, visiting the forums, waking life, I have forgotten the meaning of life itself. Only work if the same world, do not know who said: their living environment, never thought why, why I had such a life? When can achieve financial freedom, retire early, and do something you enjoy, do not imprisoned every day, do not worry about financial problems, do not worry about the pension? These problems have been from the beginning of this year has been spinning in my mind, read those books, I came to understand what Our school has never been how we spend and how to manage your finances set up courses, Ever since, I have been blind in the care of financial problems, until 2009, met the landlord sell the house, they began looking for an apartment in When faced with many problems and stress, I began to ask myself can not help but, in fact, not much money, but if you will finance it, in fact, can still save a lot of money, money that fragmented moments gone, a huge greed and the desire to always stimulate my nerves, too impulsive consumption. If the early start of financial management, and will not panic like the present, and distress. This has been bothering me, so I started to have to think of ways to learn financial management, September 1, 2009 onwards, force yourself to start from the initial stage of accounting, financial management of the first small step,UGG shoes, but also to thank the accountant accounting professional teacher, I opened the door of the accounting basis, I have a basic understanding of accounting, financial management have a certain view on, thanks to the people who helped me. 9 months, I have developed a bookkeeping, time deposit, a good habit, has been careful to control their consumption, do not blindly do not impulsive, made their own situation analysis, summary, though started late, but firmly believe that I will always carry on. Only a small start, but must believe you can do it.
3. walk this road in the workplace, after so much hard, too much pain, too much struggle, those who blame the constant renovation of those who often commit the inevitable mistakes, those lessons come to mind. Now go back all the way to look at the past, in fact, the plight of those who eat, survive the curse, eat the loss, the tears flow, not what it seems in today's thin, overtime may be fun, because it allows me to learn to more knowledge, the experience accumulated to learn that many books never knowledge, industry rules, professional orientation, I learned patience, learned to like their predecessors, as always, adhere to. What is success? In my opinion, my predecessors, are undoubtedly among the successful ,35-45, reached a relatively stable level within the industry, with years of experience and those who fought, no matter where can start all over again , you can start from scratch, and perhaps this is what I need to learn from them, in fact, some things are common to many industries, and as long as they keep learning, at all times be able to start from scratch, trying to do your best, perhaps it is his success. Their own, not others to judge.
4. read too much love, marriage, parallels in the nature of the story, she also experienced that some knowledge of some things, but these are the people, and only personally experienced before will be more profound, emotional thing, not then so easy, simple, full of illusions that can break through all obstacles, but now? And will also arrived, but the reality from the individual development of the industry, ideals, dreams, as well as the immediate livelihood. Actually been to escape, and are not willing to face, to think, to see, not even mentioned too much, but really before us, and all without exception, chose to flee, and a temporary escape, these tedious The frustrating fact, but to avoid work? Still have to start another paragraph or reality, can escape, never had it?
I have been a slow type of people, it seems that some things are slower than others, many things may be far from me, I came to understand and react. So, after both work, personal finance, industry development, career choice, location, love and marriage, I had to good learning and adjustment, and learn to empathize with the problems, more reading, more exchanges, more communication, Learning more with the older generation, so there is no exchange of obstacles, as simple as possible, direct, effective communication, the saying goes, understand that as early as possible, I hope I understand now is not too late! ! Second, learn to be alone
I have been living with family, friends and classmates, surrounded by a child a family of four, enjoyable; go to school, there are two fat children, every day together from second grade to high school graduation; University and 6 students and another friend and girlfriends have been eating together, drinking together, lived in a dorm, study together, study together, even the toilet had not been separated, lasted 4 years, until the work was separated. Unexpectedly, after work I met a bunch of like-minded colleagues have become friends after the weekend to eat, K songs, disco, chat, drink tea, go outside, to travel, go shopping, weekend no idle there every day, tired of a bunch of friends together, and, most fortunately, a girlfriends have been with me from school to live with more than 2 years, and I've never felt too lonely, do not know these two things in the end is What? Not felt, not thought.
until came to Beijing, my heart began to adapt, homesick every day, to girlfriends, to friends over the weekend tired of those happy times together, six months can not meet, there is homesick to-day fast crying, day, Friday afternoon to buy a ticket, flying hurriedly back, 7 days is undoubtedly short, the participation of many parties has not come yet, many of the dinner has not yet come eat, you have to drive the aircraft back to back, now do not know how the six survived, and each night can not sleep, pressures almost destroyed me, work, house, love, and each problem in turn my mind constantly, but no answers, untied the knot in the heart repeatedly entangled. Can not remember a day in the morning, wake up crying in the dream, tears wet the pillow, the kind of grievances, and now also feel helpless, helpless, adrift, without a sense of belonging and identity, no one can understand, no one can hear them crying early in the morning, then feel tired. Suddenly do not want to adhere to, and do not know for what came to this strange city, watching the students being a little envious, but not jealous, get all the love in the process must be one, long process.
is that time, I began to learn to be alone, learned to communicate with their plans to their own expenses and arrange their own lives each week, bring their own shopping, a man went shopping, buy enough life week necessities; a person to travel, go to Tiananmen Square, Forbidden City, walk step by step, carefully watched; a person to eat, a person sitting in the corner of Sichuan restaurant, a hot and sour to swallow the powder to tears; a person go shopping, watch people's eyes may be despicable, bargain, and then took the spoils of war to escape the bustle of the Xidan quickly all around the mall; a man sitting in subway line 5 or the No. 2 subway line watching the coming and going passing, their looks, I do not even know how many people Beijing in the end? Why are there so many of you? One shuttle in the city to a small street, go to the bank deposit money, withdraw money, and turned to leave; to China Mobile to do business, stored calls; to the subway station for the bus card payment; a person to farms to buy food , buy pots and pans, buy rice, buy noodles, vegetables, cooking, eating, washing dishes; these things are one with me in the past to accomplish, but now, everything must go myself, processing, to apply for, unavoidably, so the weekend is often these little things to the full. When the landlord is selling the house or change the time, I can not sleep night after night, the winter night sky thirty-nine 22 points under the snow outside, I climbed the cold snow, one by one phone call, a The Qukan Fang, trying to bargain, need to consider security issues, the ratio of rent and wages, the environment, the quality of co-tenant issues, as well as utility property costs a little TV Network charges fees, and so many of the costs, once a people face so many problems, really feel so helpless, but fortunately there are students to help. Otherwise I do not know how get over it. So a daily diary, update BOLG,Bailey UGG boots, daily non-stop thinking, thinking in the city's significance? Think about their own life, career direction, industry position, think about their own love, thinking about life, how to be happy in life, and learn of these problems are balanced. Thank ZHL 2400 hundred kilometers away the most difficult in my situation gave me uninterrupted time to call and encourage me, in money and moral support to me, let me quickly into the role, broke into it to quickly adapt to a series of changes. If you can, go back one day, good calls out And human fate dictates, however, the situation is a friend forever.
these days alone, let me grow up quickly, though a little pain, although the tears flee, but the wealth of my life, the North drift It is, but really a lot of people feel at home never understand, and have not faced the problem of life, deal with them here, adapt, and respond quickly. Really really glad that they came, so many days alone, let me deal with anything more calm, more rational, more mature, not that blindly follow the trend, the small blind impulse Y head, thank you broke my heart to those who growth experience, if not out, not really a lifetime experience. We still have to keep learning and thinking, learning to let their lives together Live Flesh, happy life, these are probably temporary, we must strengthen our confidence in the future, I believe they can.
learn to sudden changes in the three-rapid growth of
slow for me this type of people who most fear than change, and is the kind of sudden change, I need to a long process to adapt to, really long hours and unable to adapt.
since coming here, I had to learn to face their own one, a person flying, Ti Zheda package baggage; One took a taxi and almost lost his wallet; a person not familiar with this the city by bus, the first subway, subway map research, identify the direction; the first time looking for an apartment, was cheated intermediary intermediary fees; first time felt a deep sense of inferiority; for the first time and the city who feel the gap between white-collar workers, a huge gap, there is no previous surrounded by a group of people feel loved; first time I feel the pressure big, really great big house, household, career development, industry development, work, as well as love and marriage, these are good hard to hard. . . . . .
for the first time a person wakes up crying at night, can not find direction, Bianbu Qing living in the city, the kind of helplessness, the kind of sad, kind of romance, loss of direction of the pain, as if lost the whole world, and even for some time wanted to disappear. . . . . .
After six months of adjustment, and finally untied the knot, no more stubborn, and get some, to lose some of the total. Everything there is no best of both worlds, since the distance, we must endure all the pain from afar. A week of sleepless nights, and finally made up his mind, but not wanted, all is not thought so beautiful, many things need to adapt themselves to run. Intense work, busy life, eye eyes opened to work on, eyes closed to sleep, like the robots, the brain often in a blank, sometimes nervous breakdown, but to a failure of the wish, for an answer wait half a year, eventually heartbreaking.
Since then, not stubborn, not wholeheartedly give the overall feeling, no longer believe in the so-called commitments, those are empty promises. So careful to protect themselves the pathetic self-esteem, not allow anyone to mention again.
a strange new city, which is the most suitable period of fruitless love, forget it. At least there will not be familiar streets, familiar stores, a familiar hotel, the familiar paths, the familiar faces, familiar smile, all complete strangers, had to quickly learn to adapt.
Suddenly, incredibly hard, I thought of you, and think of myself, I understand that too let go of your love, too familiar with your care, inseparable, like you're a comfort, or sad, and now Even if the clock is shut down, even as the dust of life, inseparable, but we have laughed and said goodbye.
the world should only lose it is the most painful loss of loved ones, lost lovers, missed opportunities, job loss, loss of health, loss of a complete family,UGG boots clearance, loss of trust, loss of hope, nothing lost people to feel terrible, but we had a difficult situation when faced with strong and had to hold back the grief, a man slowly stood up, raised his head and looked at the sky, smiled and tears, smiled and said goodbye, and then turned around, so they all my life. . . . . .
been worried about the day finally came, when the brain stops, as if the world's incredibly hard to not know how to do later? Can not know how long the stay? Their ability, their values, their experience, their qualifications, in the city are slim, probably did not matter, right? And with mixed feelings, to leave or stay? Adhere to or avoid? These tangled issues surfaced repeatedly in my mind, no one knows, and he is not sure, repeated contrast, comparison, repeated sure, but also repeatedly denied, and repeatedly thousands of times, always to no avail. . . . . .
want to avoid, really, too want to escape, and find a place to hide, do not want to, do not ask, quietly for a few days, cool.
now run away, then all the efforts made before, all paid, all the passion and enthusiasm, have an instant collapse, all in vain; face, but could not pay any share of courage, share naked courage, no confidence, no one is certain, there is no encouragement, fear. . . . .
Maybe some things to avoid useless, sooner or later have to face, accept the reality of it, no matter what kind of reality, no matter how cruel, perhaps after a loss, there will be a new bar ~ < br>
proudly raised his head towards the sky said, is through your style, I can only dream of getting away from the past, to complete a time travel, to complete a one small wish.
heart still dreams, it is not lonely, often consoled himself, encourage yourself, laugh about it.
learn to sudden changes in the rapid growth and rapid maturity, indifferent, calm, calm, calm in the face of all, to an elegant and gorgeous figure, for those who have contempt for my people I the back. . . . . Road hoping to dream again in the farther and farther. . . . .
IV. down stubborn, refusing to escape, face the stubborn reality that
Ye Hao continue like this, nothing wrong with a person's life, with a smile the face of strong all choose to work Select industry to select the development of a person to travel, a person live their life like, woke up only to find later that many people have married, 2 children aged students, and around one-third of married girlfriends, three one has the other half, only two or three like me, still shaking, did not thought of marriage, thought about having children, has been quite good so that, regarded as the transition and buffer, one to face the reality plan under the pressure of last resort. Have had copies of my best love before me, I do not cherish, but now people are getting married, maybe the world really afford to whom no one can wait a few months time, before the world has become like like, when I react when it was too late, however, I can not keep up the feelings change so fast in this world.
finally decided to start his life, and fear endured 3 months, lost his temper, to escape, try to avoid this topic, but still can not escape the fact that in different places, really wanted to go on this count has been , but suddenly one day, unable to control repressed inner feelings, to explode, so that moment really broke out, what would all say, so finished, so do not dare think that the finish on the end, I did not expect Finally, a reality, maybe I, have been afraid to face it, perhaps ending the way it should, but I have been trying to avoid, not want to believe reality,UGGs, unwilling to listen, do not want to say, do not want to face Yes, that is too cruel, a few months since the collapse of the emotional moment of the moment, but fortunately this time, mental ill-prepared, or is absolutely unable to control. Because in any case are only two paths, the first keep, keep, an unknown number of years, adhere to what happens when an unknown, difficult to guess adhere to each other mind, adhere to the time of bitter, tired, may be disheartened ; second, to give up, give it up no one would dare speak, courage to abandon a promise to give up a stick seems to betray his own, to give voice was weak. That personal commitment to those who better future, the unknown good, the moment come to naught, just as night had a dream, so unreal, so fragile vulnerable, so easily commitment, do not know the man was how to think in the end ~ ~
five. go out and refuse to house
like walking, but never really seriously good to go all the way to go in the past, look around the landscape, each times to the airport to the field to leave Beijing on business or home, before they agree to look good, think about it, not like before, but now a kind of nostalgia mood, and only when the departure time! Perhaps people are so
understand cherish it, often leaving, only to think that he had not really from the heart to understand it, appreciate it.
my house for a year, Beijing finally decided to go out and breathe fresh air of early spring, and brings tears of the sun, this time a good bear, bear youth in Beijing time, because they do not know when will leave ......
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